BOUNDARIES ⚠️
My boundaries— DONTS and OKAYS…
ᨶ႒ᩚ ***DONTS***1 If I find out, it’s likely an immediate block. No matter how close we are.If you have a problem with me, be honest and bring it to my attention civilly. Of course I have my problems, but I’m working on them all at my own pace. Just be respectful and patient with me if there’s any issue—don’t talk behind my back.3 purposely leaving me outI understand not seeing the message, however it does get to a point. Being left out hurts. More than some think.4 constantly bringing up mental health issuesfor example;constantly saying “I’m gonna kms”, “when I kms”, “I should kms” when the topic doesn’t call for itbringing up suicide attempts or SH over and over.5 don’t push me to do things. Period.I said I’ll be fine/I’m fine when I’m clearly not? Don’t push me to open up, just give me space. I’ll open up when/if I feel like it. You pushing it and prying at it will make it 100x worse and I won’t ever open up.Yes, I do give in to things easily. That is a huge problem. Taking advantage of that by continuing to push and pry until I give in is NOT okay with me.6 constantly using me to ventOf course I will be there for you to vent to and talk to—**always**. However if it’s to the point it’s draining MY mental health and emotional energy, I will no longer feel respected. I am not responsible for YOUR feelings, as harsh as it sounds. YOU are responsible for YOUR baggage, I am not a crutch and will not be used as one.7 ragebaiting when I’ve stated I am upsetYes, I am fine with ragebaiting. However, when I’ve said “stop”, “you’re pissing me off”, etc. it is just disrespectful and annoying.I understand not being able to tell I’m genuinely upset, so it’s easy to do by mistake. However, I tend to make when I’m upset obvious so it shouldn’t be a problem.
ᨶ႒ᩚ ***OKAYS***1 friendly flirting as long as it’s all jokes and not severely NSFW2 being “shipped” with people as long as it’s with someone else who is alright with that3 JOKING insultsI am fine with being insulted—as long as it is clear it’s a joke. If not obvious, PLEASE clear it up as a joke politely as I am a sensitive person at times.4 romantic sounding nicknames (STRICTLY platonic use if you are not my partner.)dear, babe, honey, hun, darling, etc.
ᨶ႒ᩚ ***DNI***Boundary breakers, assholes, those who make sexual jokes at an insane level constantly, anyone under 13 or above 21, problematic people, people who support problematic people, racists, homophobes, pedophiles.but thats pretty much it...... 🥱